Being A Virgin Sucks – Here’s What To Do About It
Hi, I’m Kurt D. Robinson. Welcome to How To Pick Up A Girl. Let me tell you, I remember a time when I couldn’t get a girlfriend to save my life. I was twenty years old, and a virgin.
I’d only ever kissed about two girls. I’d even seen some of my friends lose their virginity literally with my own eyes. But I just didn’t get it. I had no clue why girls didn’t like me in that way. Or worse, some times there were girls that did like me, and I had no clue what to do about it. Girls would flirt with me, and I would either not even realise, or I would stand there with a dumbfounded look on my face.
I was nervous around people, shy, and stifled, feeling I couldn’t really say what was on my mind. I was lonely, and needy. When I did meet a girl who liked me, I would scare her away by becoming obsessed with her.
What could be more frustrating? The worst part was, I had a feeling like nothing could be done about it. I just thought it was totally out of my control, and I just hoped that one day that some girl would take pity on me, and I would get a real girlfriend. Nothing could be more emasculating to a man than feeling like you’re just not in control of your life. That you’re just a loser, and you don’t know what to do about it.
Picture this scenario
Imagine you’re sitting at a bar or club, alone. You’re hoping that girls will notice you. Or you’re hoping that they won’t notice you, because if they look at you, you know you won’t be able to do anything about it. A sexy girl walks past in a red dress. She looks at you and catches you checking her out. You look away, embarrassed of your desires as a man. You feel the nerves bubbling in your belly, rising up as you try to gather the courage to talk to her. You feel the frustration when you can’t bring yourself to do it.
Many nights I would come home from the nightclub, and stare at myself in the mirror, feeling worthless -
wondering what was wrong with me that I couldn’t get girls.
That was my life. I was frustrated, confused, and most of all, pissed off.
That’s when a close friend came to my rescue.
I told him about my problems. He recommended an e-book to me. It was called David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating. It cost $20, which seemed expensive to me at the time. But I thought what the hell, there’s a thirty day money-back guarantee. If the book turns out to be bullshit, I can always get my money back. So I scraped together $20, and ordered the e-book.
Ping! Went my messenger as it dropped into my inbox.
I read through the concepts in the book. At first I was bewildered at these new ideas. I called up one of my closest female friends, Cindy, and described a few ideas from the book. I told her that I wasn’t sure about them.
She replied “If a guy behaved like that around me in a club…
I would definitely be attracted and intrigued by him.”
I said “Oh.” I decided this stuff might be worth a try after all.
The funny thing was, while I wasn’t attracted to Cindy, she was in love with me. I started to notice that I had been using techniques from the book naturally – but I would never use them on girls I was actually attracted to, because they didn’t seem like “the right thing” to say to a girl.
I started testing it out on girls I knew. A few months later I was doing things like, seeing two girls – best friends – at once, with neither realising I was seeing the other. I started dating a gorgeous blonde, and other guys started hating on me because I had so much success with women.
Nowadays I have what can only be classified as RIDONKULOUS amounts of success with women. Some weekends I go out and take a girl home on Friday, and take a girl home on Saturday.
I EVEN HAVE SEX WITH THEM AFTER I TAKE THEM HOME!!!
Other guys are amazed at the ballsy stuff I do – but I just see it as normal, and having fun. But best of all is the feeling of confidence and self-efficacy – that I took control of my life, and continue to take control of my life. And the knowing that I can express myself without caring what other people think.
Just the other night, I was out at the pub with my workmates, standing outside. An attractive girl, standing alone a few metres away, whom I’d never met before, said “It’s so cold!” I said “Yep, you need to cuddle up.” She came towards me and I put my arm around her. Later, one of my workmates – an English guy living in Australia, who does quite well with women – asked me “So how did you go with that girl?”
I said “Ah, you know. I got her number.”
He said “Really??! I thought you’d be like ‘HEEY I GOT HER NUMBER!!!’ She was hot!”
But I didn’t even think twice about it.
Since I started on this path, I’ve had many mentors, and seen many programs describing how to attract women. Some were good, some not so good. But it all began with David DeAngelo’s free report, and it is still one of a handful of products that I know brings results, fast.
It has short-term techniques that will get girls interested in you, right away. It’s almost freaky how you can say one thing to a girl, and all of a sudden, she’s looking at you, fascinated and amazed, wondering
“Who is this amazing guy in front of me?”
And it also has long-term techniques about developing your character as a man – becoming the comfortable, dominant man, that women look at and feel the attraction rippling through their bodies, like a tsunami washing over them – just by the nature of who he is.
The ladies love that shit.
You can pick up David D’s free report that’s full of value, and he will give you a great tip that you can start using right now to find out if a girl is attracted to you.